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Why No One May Be Getting Married at Your Church This Summer

Uncategorized | May 31, 2018

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By Bob Smietana

Fewer Americans are going to the chapel to get married these days.

Religious institutions like churches hosted only 22 percent of weddings in 2017, according to The Knot, a major wedding planning website. That’s down almost half from 2009, when 41 percent of weddings were at religious institutions.

In 2017, 15 percent of weddings were at barns, farms, or ranches. Fourteen percent were at historic homes. Seventeen percent were at a banquet hall. Hotels (12 percent) and country clubs (12 percent) were also popular.

“Additional popular nontraditional reception sites include beach houses, wineries, rooftops, museums, and parks,” says The Knot.

And pastors now have competition when it comes to officiating at weddings.

Forty-three percent of couples had a friend or family member officiate at their wedding in 2016, according to a previous study by The Knot. That’s up from 29 percent in 2009.

It’s also led to some headaches for couples. States like Tennessee, for example, have strict rules about who can perform a wedding.

According to the Commercial Appeal, Tennessee law states that “in order to solemnize the rite of marriage any such minister, preacher, pastor, priest, rabbi or other spiritual leader must be ordained or otherwise designated in conformity with the customs of a church, temple or other religious group or organization; and such customs must provide for such ordination or designation by a considered, deliberate, and responsible act.”

A click of the mouse for an online ordination doesn’t cut it, says the state of Tennessee.

Some couples have found out the hard way that they aren’t really married, reported the Commercial Appeal.

Even though fewer weddings have preachers or take place in a church, religion plays a big role in marriage for many Americans.

Presbyterians (64 percent), Lutherans (62 percent), Anglicans (61 percent), Methodists (61 percent), Southern Baptists (60 percent), and members of other Christian groups are more likely to be married than those who claim no religious affiliation (38 percent), atheists (36 percent), or agnostics (35 percent).

About half (48 percent) of the American population is married, according to Pew Research. Seven percent of Americans live with someone. Thirteen percent are divorced or separated, and a quarter have never been married.

Related:

  • Who’s Most Likely to be Married? Hint: It’s Not Evangelicals
  • Why This Family Organization Wants to End Marriage Licenses
  • Pastors, Public Both Divided on Future of Marriage

BOB SMIETANA (@BobSmietana) is senior writer at Facts & Trends.

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